Amore wrote:sunstoned wrote:I was born into a church were bi-polar thinking was the norm. I have been out of the church for years, but I am still plagued by this type of thinking.
Me too.
It's a tough one because it's supported by so many herd mentalities...
Ie:"Good guy vs. bad guy" superficiality is about all America's lit (movies) have time for.
Little by little, I'm letting go of previous unrealistic expectations of perfection and dysfunctional shame. But it's an ongoing process. First, I was angry at realizing so much wasn't how I'd thought - pissed at myself and others for being imperfect. Now, realizing (emotionally not just intellectually) that it's to be expected that all human beings have some greed, pride, general weakness. "In each of us is a bit of all of us."
It is interesting how so many people claim that life is merely subjective....yet....they insist that reality is not always how one thinks it is. This is the dissonance of almost every atheist I have ever met or had the good humor to read.
That being said,
Is not the "good vs. bad" exactly the notion being expressed by "In each of us is a bit of all of us." ? This seems to not be superficial at all but the most founded truth one can realize, correct?
thanks for the great thread topic