Maksutov wrote:I suspect that your transhumanist interests might be related to what was once referred to as a doctrine of external exaltation. That was one of the beliefs that drew me to the Church in the first place. It was quite shocking and disturbing, but ultimately very significant, when we were told that "I'm not sure that we teach that", "It's more a couplet than anything else". The very leader of the church, either dismissing or lying about a belief very dear to me. His cavalier dismissal of so much of the Mountain Meadows atrocity was another teaching moment. All of my respect for the church leadership left. I still love the people, they are still my family, friends and neighbors. I don't judge them by the Hinckleys and Packers and Dunns, or even by Joseph Smith. I love them for who they are, including their eccentricities and errors. I've learned that Mormons are at their best when they're relational, not conceptual. The weakness of their concepts requires liberal amounts of social glue, reinforcement and shunning to maintain. That has some serious costs.
Luckily, I don't have to defend other people's flaws. I am not interested in Joseph Smith per se, but the source of the message that he presented, so that I can get the same essential message from the same source. This is the flaw in finding flaws in Joseph Smith. You find the flaws, and you overlook the essentials of the purpose for which he was called, and the purpose of the message that he preached in all of its flaws.
Another Japanese quote is in order: "Do not seek to follow in the footsteps of the wise. Seek what they sought." --Matsu Basho
I don't follow Joseph Smith. I seek for what he sought. This is the grand flaw in all Anti-Mormonism. You seek to judge them by the mortal weaknesses. I seek what transcends them and get to the source of all that. My loyalty to these people only has to do with who they were and are serving, because loyalty to them is by extension loyalty to what transcends them. If you can't see that, then that is a sad thing.
I realize that you can't see beyond the fact that these people cover things up, but it was in their heart to protect and defend, not to deceive, although they could not really separate the two cleanly.
I can't separate cleanly the fact that Donald Trump gropes people from the fact that he wants to be friends with Russia and avoid World War III, when Hillary would gladly get us into that war for the sake of the MIC and for the sake of oil interests in Syria. It's a package deal if I want Trump in power. I can't cleanly separate the man from the flaws. If I am more interested in his foreign policy getting implemented, I have to look past his flaws, and hold my nose and vote.
It was in the heart of Joseph Smith to keep the commandment of plural marriage, not to be a womanizer. It was in the heart of Joseph Smith to keep the commandment, not to lie to claim that he wasn't doing it. You can't cleanly separate always the reality of what you are forced into when sometimes there is a more important and weighty consideration. I'm sorry that you don't believe that certain things are weighty matters. If it were not for their weight, then there would have been no ugliness to what was entered in to, when the circumstances thrust a person into an ugly matter, when they had to make a certain choice that involved a less-than-desirable thing such as a lie. I don't have to defend a lie, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that life is full of complex choices where a choice is sometimes a package deal with things attached that we don't like.
It was not in the heart of Packer to conceal Church history, but it was in his heart to protect the faith of the Church. He saw the concealment as a necessary evil for good. Nobody needs to defend the evil, but you don't seem to see that his heart was not in it for evil.
I cannot separate the fact that a man that invades my home will likely end up dead if he tries to hurt my family. I wouldn't want to take his life, but the circumstances may force it if I am forced to defend my family. But if I have to defend my home, I may have to do something I didn't want to do.
If someone's spouse is prone to get cancer because of a family history of it in the genes, and a person knows it when entering into a marriage, they may face loss of a spouse later because of the health problems that are bound to be the result. Yet they may choose to marry anyway because they know it is the right thing to do, yet the other part of the package is that the genes are passed down yet again. But they then once again have this other thing attached to this choice that they wish was not attached to it. But the package deal is what it is. You can take the package deal, or you can leave it. You can't separate the package cleanly.
So this simple-minded thing from you about the Hinkley's and the Packers and the Joseph Smith's of the world that do things that you don't like because the choice is bigger than pure deception or pure lust or whatever doesn't really fly. And I don't really have to be an apologist to see that. I'm sorry that you judge the Church by those complexities. That to me is sad that perhaps you threw away the course that you were on because of these kinds of choices that people are faced with.