The DoubtingThomas dating / relationships MEGATHREAD

[_EAllusion]

I’m going to give the benefit of the doubt and assume DT is also 18-22 and us just awkwardly saying he wants to date someone his own age.

The incessant focus on looks though is really off-putting. And with the expectation of his partners being beautiful you would hope he is a smoke show himself so he isn’t a deluded hypocrite. But if that’s the case, you wouldn’t think meeting people would be so hard for him. Finding people is a lot easier for the very attractive.

[_Jersey Girl]

DT I feel like I asked you this previously on this thread or some other thread. If not, I'm having a Deja Vu moment for no good reason at all. I'll keep it super short.

What do you like to do in your spare time?

[Guest]

It consumes too much of your time

In comparison with what?

You seem to be very unlikely to meet a potential significant other if you are not prepared to put a LOT of effort into it. So either put the work in, or quit complaining.

You are right, but I am not looking for a significant other. I don't believe in soulmates.

DT I feel like I asked you this previously on this thread or some other thread. If not, I'm having a Deja Vu moment for no good reason at all. I'll keep it super short.

What do you like to do in your spare time?

Good question. I like to do research.

[_DoubtingThomas]

I’m going to give the benefit of the doubt and assume DT is also 18-22 and us just awkwardly saying he wants to date someone his own age.

The incessant focus on looks though is really off-putting. And with the expectation of his partners being beautiful you would hope he is a smoke show himself so he isn’t a deluded hypocrite. But if that’s the case, you wouldn’t think meeting people would be so hard for him. Finding people is a lot easier for the very attractive.

Physical attraction does matter. Just to let you know I think most girls are attractive, I would say 60% are good looking. I am not looking for a super hot model. Jesus Christ I don't ask for much!

So, beautiful, age 18-22.

Well, I would say 18 to 24 years at the most.

If those are your only requirements, have you considered a mail order bride, maybe someone needing a green card? All she needs is a male citizen.

You are brilliant!

[_Lemmie]

If those are your only requirements, have you considered a mail order bride, maybe someone needing a green card? All she needs is a male citizen.

You are brilliant!

Of course I am, but you won't get a woman like me with your current approach. I hear there are very realistic blow up dolls these days that also fit your requirements.

[_Morley]

I’m going to give the benefit of the doubt and assume DT is also 18-22 and us just awkwardly saying he wants to date someone his own age.

I'd say Thomas is early 30s and wants someone about ten years younger. Am I right, DT?

[_canpakes]

... I hear there are very realistic blow up dolls these days that also fit your requirements.

Lol. You punster. : )

[_moksha]

I hear there are very realistic blow up dolls these days that also fit your requirements.

Plus, they do not smoke, drink alcohol, or tell you to sit up straight when you are typing replies on this forum.

[Guest]

I'd say Thomas is early 30s

No, but that may be the case when I am in my 30s.

ten years younger. Am I right, DT?

I wouldn't mind dating a rich woman in her 30s, 40s, or even 50s.

Of course I am, but you won't get a woman like me with your current approach

Hi! How is your day going?

[_Lemmie]

I'd say Thomas is early 30s

No, but I do realize that time goes fast.

ten years younger. Am I right, DT?

I wouldn't mind dating a rich woman in her 30s, 40s, or even 50s.

Of course I am, but you won't get a woman like me with your current approach

Hi! How is your day going?

You are too obvious, DT. You want young and beautiful, or older and wealthy. Why? Has it ever occurred to you that women are people with brains and feelings? Not just toys to be played with or used?