Ceeboo wrote:
First of all, this board is by no means heavily flavored by "Mormon" perspectives.
This board is dominated by ex-Mormons some of whom very well may have retained some cultural attitudes of their form religious culture while stopping believing in Mormonism. You see this crop up from time to time. Listen to DT discuss dating some time and his views seem painfully Mormon.
Secondly, you are wrong (imagine that) that this personal choice is cemented in backwards religious thinking.
It stops being just a personal choice when it affects other people.
As a matter of fact, among the list of possible reasons that a man might decide to not have one on one business lunches with a female, religion probably isn't found on the first two pages of said list.
Oh, it's just coincidental that this view is largely found religious fundamentalist cultures that teach attitudes towards gender roles that predispose this behavior?
This has nothing to do with descrimination (or racism or sexism or oppression or any other thing that you imagine in your head.) It has everything to do with individual choices made by individual people who don't owe you or anyone else an explanation for their personal decision.
For you to sit in judgement and scream descrimination, while unfortunately not surprising from folks who think like you do, is yet another example of your own intolerance for other human beings that have made personal choices that you don't happen to agree with.
Your "personal choice" is literally to discriminate against women by refusing to meet with them alone. Defend it if you must, but at least own up to it. If you refused to have lunch with black people, you can describe that as a personal choice and be right about that in a sense, but your behavior is discriminatory and has effects on people other than yourself.