Jersey Girl wrote:So now this supportive thread has turned into a debate/pissing contest over the existence or non existence of God.
I'm completely disgusted.
You know, I was going to stay out of this, because I can be an asshole. I mean, sure, the "“F” God" headline beckoned to me, stirring up my troublemaker. But I saw that it was about support. And then, well, something was said it didn't seem like support anymore. I mean, if God doesn't exist why are we giving him the Screw you finger?
Life is an opportunity that God gives us. There is no promise, unless you find and earn that promise. But mostly, we take our chances. That those chances turned sour for someone is just the breaks. But we all have a chance to make the best of things. Some people get a bucket of crap and still stand tall, thankful for the opportunity that God has given them. We have all suffered that bucket of crap in one way or another.
Sorry, if someone whining doesn't suit me. My sister is on her third fight with brain cancer in 15 years. We make the most of what we have. For those that get through this kind of crap in one piece, usually thank God. Love and loss sucks, it isn't easy for anyone. But many of us learn that God helps us get through and survive, a promise that love lost, isn't actually gone forever.
So be disgusted, you aren't the first.