The DoubtingThomas dating / relationships MEGATHREAD

[_Lemmie]

I've updated my prior. You're a creepy fake.

[_Dr. Shades]

I wouldn't want a woman that has received a lot of d***ks or has 3+ children.

What's the maximum number of received d***ks that are acceptable?

This is a serious question.

[_Jersey Girl]

But it is sad that you can't tolerate my feelings.

Lemmie hasn't addressed your feelings. She's addressed the thoughts you've expressed here.

It is sad that you don't know the difference between feelings and thoughts.

[_DoubtingThomas]

I wouldn't want a woman that has received a lot of d***ks or has 3+ children.

What's the maximum number of received d***ks that are acceptable?

This is a serious question.

There is nothing wrong with having a sex with a lot of people. I just want a special moment with someone that didn't have many special moments.

[Guest]

But it is sad that you can't tolerate my feelings.

Lemmie hasn't addressed your feelings. She's addressed the thoughts you've expressed here.

It is sad that you don't know the difference between feelings and thoughts.

Explain please. How? What is wrong with my thoughts? Is it wrong to look at probabilities?

[_DoubtingThomas]

I've updated my prior. You're a creepy fake.

For not wanting to lose my virginity with someone that has slept with many men? The problem for me is that I am not looking for marriage or a lifelong commitment, but I am looking for someone special. It is not easy for me.

[_Quasimodo]

I've updated my prior. You're a creepy fake.

For not wanting to lose my virginity with someone that has slept with many men? The problem for me is that I am not looking for marriage or a lifelong commitment, but I am looking for someone special. It is not easy for me.

It works both ways. I'm guessing that many "acceptable" ladies see you in the same light.

[_DoubtingThomas]

For not wanting to lose my virginity with someone that has slept with many men? The problem for me is that I am not looking for marriage or a lifelong commitment, but I am looking for someone special. It is not easy for me.

It works both ways. I'm guessing that many "acceptable" ladies see you in the same light.

Exactly! It is not easy for me to find the right person. I may be asking for too much.

[_huckelberry]

Or to put it simple. That special moment wouldn't be so special with someone that already had many special moments.

Perhaps you could keep in mind that a special moment is dependent upon the quality of relationship, friendship, trust, love and desire which has developed between two people. Romance can have a lot of power. Otherwise a first time together could turn out to be a clumsy awkward unpleasant disappointment

[_Gadianton]

DT, in my expert opinion, having commented on things that are none of my business over a long life approaching the hundred year mark, my guess would be that you don't want to be in a relationship. You might disagree, and I could be wrong about my prediction, but have you at least considered the possibility that you don't want to be in a relationship?

I'm not playing word games with the word "relationship", relationships can be good or bad, and neither is it good or bad to want to be in one, so there is no judgment here.

If there's stuff that I want at Walmart, but I never go because I don't want to park in the back and walk, but neither do I want to get there early and compete with all those idiots for front-row parking, then I should at least consider the possibility that I don't really want to go to Walmart.