The DoubtingThomas dating / relationships MEGATHREAD

[_Lemmie]

DoubtingThomas, have you forgotten what you've posted here and on MormonDialogue, under an account name you openly acknowledged was yours in threads here?

If what you previously and openly posted about your age and your personal stories about sex was true, then what you are saying now is NOT true. And you are WAY too old to be hitting on virginal 18 year olds. What game are you playing?

You made me say it, and I remember asking Shades to delete those messages because Mormon Dialogue mods know who I am under that user name. I am a member of the church fully active and the last thing I want is for Cal or someone to contact my bishop. If someone here is really interested in taking a guess on my age we can see face to face on Skype. Send me a private message.

Now I don't remember what stupid things I posted a long time ago, but I can assure you I was more immature. Judge for yourself on Skype if you want. But it really doesn't matter.

Yes it does, when you post lies, like this from p. 7 of this thread:

I am not necessarily looking for a virgin like myself, but I do want my first time to be very special.

Right.

And the last thing someone a full decade past 23 who has bragged about a very experienced past should be doing is sizing up 18 year olds while faking virginity.

Even if I were 33 years old it wouldn't be a bad thing (but my chance of success would be one in a million). I really don't understand why so much age discrimination. If an 18 year old can die for the country, he/she can marry who ever they want. Or am I wrong?

Yes, you are wrong. You are not talking about age discrimination, you are talking about lying to young, inexperienced girls. It is wrong, as Miss Tish pointed out:

And if i may speak bluntly, if you're over 22 or 23, you're too old for an 18 year old. As people get older the differences between their ages would matter less, but an 18 year old is not (usually) a fully formed functional adult capable of having an adult relationship

Her comment is all the more poignant, given you are a decade past 22 or 23.

You may be right, but people are never ready for marriage. There is a reason why most marriages end up failing. But we can learn from our mistakes and grow.

You missed Miss Tish's point entirely. Your stated plan to seek out 18 year old girls who are 15 years younger than you, while misrepresenting yourself as a virgin seeking another virgin, is utterly dishonest and wildly inappropriate. It would be irresponsible of readers of your posts to encourage you in this borderline illegal and definitely immoral plan.

[_honorentheos]

DT, if what Lemmie recalls is accurate to who you really are, you're worse than a creep. You're a predator.

[_Jersey Girl]

You made me say it,

Seriously.

[Guest]

DT, if what Lemmie recalls is accurate to who you really are, you're worse than a creep. You're a predator.

That is so wrong.

[_DoubtingThomas]

It would be irresponsible of readers of your posts to encourage you in this borderline illegal and definitely immoral plan.

In my state the age of consent is 16 years, so it is not borderline. I would prefer 18 to 20, but honestly I don't talk to 18 year olds.

You missed Miss Tish's point entirely. Your stated plan to seek out 18 year old girls who are 15 years younger than you, while misrepresenting yourself as a virgin seeking another virgin, is utterly dishonest and wildly inappropriate.

You can see me on Skype face to face and tell me if I really look 33. Now forget about me for a second, would it be wrong for an 18 year old girl to have a first time moment with a 24 year old virgin? So if an 18 year is old enough to die for the country, wouldn't he/she be old enough to decide who to date?

[_Jersey Girl]

You can see me on Skype face to face and tell me if I really look 33. Now forget about me for a second, would it be wrong for an 18 year old girl to have a first time moment with a 24 year old virgin?

It doesn't matter what you look like. Apparently you've made statements on MD&D to the effect that you are in your early 30's.

Just in case you missed the point here, this is the part where your ass is in a sling and it will likely do you no good to act like Lemmie didn't nail you on both your deception and creepery.

[_DoubtingThomas]

It doesn't matter what you look like. Apparently you've made statements on MD&D to the effect that you are in your early 30's.

Well if I did I was probably pretending to be someone older. Lemmie can PM me and you those posts. Please. But even if I am in my early 30s, it wouldn't make it wrong to date someone 18 years or older. In my state the age of consent is 16 and a 18 year old can die for the country.

[_Jersey Girl]

Well if I did I was probably pretending to be someone older.

I'll take that as a tacit admission that you're full of it.

[_honorentheos]

DT, if what Lemmie recalls is accurate to who you really are, you're worse than a creep. You're a predator.

That is so wrong.

DT, get help.

[_DoubtingThomas]

I'll take that as a tacit admission that you're full of it.

As I said Lemmie can PM you and me those messages because I honestly can't remember. But it is better to look at me on Skype face to face and decide for yourself. I am still not sure why my age is so important. I could really be 33 years old and wouldn't make me an immoral person. If an 18 old can die for the country, she can also go out with a man 14 years older. As I said the age of consent is 16 years on my state, so I think am far from being a bad person, and I am not really 33 years old. I am however a sad and depressed virgin.