John Dehlin on the Immorality of Mormonism!

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honorentheos wrote:I'm amused at the parallels in this thread and the Dershowitz defense.

Calling an act immoral, universally without regard for person or position, is an essential trait of a pluralistic society. The US Supreme Court has established this precedent when it comes to arguments for religious exemption from the law for good reason, demanding all be equal under it. A belief in human sacrifice does not excuse murder. A belief in plural marriage as a sacrament does not excuse bigamy. If the act of hiding the facts to maintain power isn't immoral because the party doing so believes it's in the interests of those being deceive, well then. Enjoy the Dershowitz defense as it lays waste to liberal Western society. We will never agree that the issue is one of personal belief. It's not about religion being in a special category. Its about institutions of authority versus individual liberty and just application of a standard of moral behavior.


It is interesting to watch you attempt equate things that really don’t equate very well. Some of the things you accept as simply obviously immoral are still contested. For example, you say bigamy is obviously immoral. A whole lot of people would not agree. Many would argue that the Constitution should protect the right of consenting adults to enter into a contractual relationship of their mutual choosing. Where is your obvious immorality now?

Remember, the question is not what you and I find immoral, honor, or even what many Americans have long assumed was immoral, but what we can conclude is inherently, universally immoral. Some would in fact argue that laws against bigamy are an affront to Western liberal values of our day.

I do not find it to be obviously immoral that a church would not teach the totality of its history in proselyting or devotional services.

Moreover, the issue becomes more complicated when comparing the actions of an individual man with those of what is essentially a committee. Dershowitz is defending the misconduct of a single president in a particular system. The idea that an elected official would compromise national security in pursuit of the goal of re-election is, for me, an easy question to decide, as without a certain degree of national security, there is nothing left to protect.

Here we are talking about the myth that a culture has told itself over generations, one that is used to foster faith in certain values and rites. There is no doubt in my mind that certain people are culpable for hiding history along the way. But that is different from saying the Church’s actions have been clearly immoral. The Church’s actions, collectively speaking, have been all over the map. The cost of doing a bad job of dealing with the changing demands of a modern information society is obvious, but it is also something that many are dealing with.

At the same time it is important to acknowledge the positive steps that some Mormons and among them Church leaders have taken.

Complexity is not an excuse. That said, understanding complexity tempers what might otherwise be overly harsh judgment. I see an understandable but intemperate desire to condemn utterly the LDS Church, where I would like to see more understanding for the foibles of the Mormon people. The cost of the former might be forgetting the humanity of the latter.

So let’s by all means resolve not to hide history because we individually know it to be wrong in principle. At the same time, let us maintain sufficient imagination and compassion to understand the complex landscape of competing values that can result in a flawed historical narrative. Let’s give credit to those who see the flaws and endeavor to correct them, recognizing that rushing to change also has a cost. Many here might not consider that cost worth reckoning, but we can at least, I hope, sympathize with and not rush to condemn those who do.
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Kishkumen wrote:Meadowchik, I don’t think that fairly represents what I am saying or Haidt’s work.


Earlier fetchface said

"I have found Jonathan Haidt's research valuable in helping me realize that others prioritize their moral principles differently than me and it doesn't make them bad people. I disagree with their priorities but I think they are attempting to prioritize the principles that are important to them."

So while Haidt really illuminated why people believe and how they change beliefs, he doesn't really deal with how people measure up to a standard of goodness. His book was about understanding the belief process, not about evaluating a person's goodness.
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What about the issue of power, though?

If some people choose to live in a polyamorous compact, I can’t see how I have any ground to condemn them. But if religious leaders were using their authoritative preaching to groom all their community’s girls for polygamous marriage to old men, I’d call that wrong.

Leaders aren’t just living their own lives according to their lights. They’re making other people live according to the leaders’ lights. This makes a difference.
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Physics Guy wrote:What about the issue of power, though?

If some people choose to live in a polyamorous compact, I can’t see how I have any ground to condemn them. But if religious leaders were using their authoritative preaching to groom all their community’s girls for polygamous marriage to old men, I’d call that wrong.

Leaders aren’t just living their own lives according to their lights. They’re making other people live according to the leaders’ lights. This makes a difference.


I like the river metaphor for life: we're all born into a moving river. We cannot see where it came from, we cannot see indefinitely where it leads, none can. However, some are bobbing for air at the surface, trading water or swimming, while others may be in boats, and others at the wheel of the boats full of other people.

So if you find yourself with your hand on a boat's wheel, eventually you figure out that others are affected by your own actions, and you cannot just blame the river for the boat or the wheel, or your position. You have power over them and therefore a moral obligation to the people in the boat.
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Jesus, all I'm saying is that if you have wacky beliefs, you can cause great harm to others with the best of intentions. Indeed, if you don't question your wacky beliefs, you will be mostly blind to the harm you are causing, often justifying the harm you can see with some vast imaginary good.

Never in my wildest dreams did I think this would be a controversial point to argue.
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Meadowchik wrote:So while Haidt really illuminated why people believe and how they change beliefs, he doesn't really deal with how people measure up to a standard of goodness. His book was about understanding the belief process, not about evaluating a person's goodness.

I seem to remember him stating that he, a left-leaning guy himself, gained an appreciation for the moral reasoning of conservatives through his research. I gained a similar appreciation and learned a lot more about why conservatives think and feel like they do, and are prone to be manipulated in certain ways (not that liberals aren't).
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Physics Guy wrote:What about the issue of power, though?

If some people choose to live in a polyamorous compact, I can’t see how I have any ground to condemn them. But if religious leaders were using their authoritative preaching to groom all their community’s girls for polygamous marriage to old men, I’d call that wrong.

Leaders aren’t just living their own lives according to their lights. They’re making other people live according to the leaders’ lights. This makes a difference.

From the point of view of the leader that is fabricating reasons to expand his sexual opportunities, it's pretty clear-cut. Joseph Smith was a scumbag.

Now, when you get into a situation like, say, an FLDS man who is a true believer I think things get more grey. He honestly believes that the universe is ruled by an all-powerful alpha ape that is constantly testing his loyalty. Every decision he makes is viewed through the lens of pleasing the silverback and getting everyone he possibly can to do the same (it's all for their good, after all).

It is definitely this man's responsibility to engage with the world and do his best to form correct beliefs, but while he does believe the crazy, he's going to exercise whatever power he has in ways that appear very immoral to someone who does not share his beliefs, but they do have a sort of internal consistency within the system that shows them to be minimizing harm when they are actually just causing senseless harm.

The biggest problem these sorts have is that their God is immoral, but they have some real trouble seeing that. The instinct to follow a strong alpha is hard for certain personality types to overcome.
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Physics Guy wrote:What about the issue of power, though?

If some people choose to live in a polyamorous compact, I can’t see how I have any ground to condemn them. But if religious leaders were using their authoritative preaching to groom all their community’s girls for polygamous marriage to old men, I’d call that wrong.

Leaders aren’t just living their own lives according to their lights. They’re making other people live according to the leaders’ lights. This makes a difference.


To expand on this a bit. The is nothing inherently immoral with Mormon leadership presenting a hagiographical portrait of the church and its leaders if that was all they were doing. Where it becomes immoral is when that same leadership uses that false picture of historical perfection, which it it claims is divinely inspired, as a coercive basis to threaten members into unquestioning obedience to leadership. In the Mormon church, apostasy is defined as disobedience to leadership. Members who point out leadership flaws are excommunicated even when the member is correct. That's immoral.
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kairos wrote:"There is something fundamentally immoral to presenting a narrative that people build their entire lives upon. They decide what to do with their education, how much money to give, who to marry, when to marry, how many kids to have, what professions to pursue… There’s this massive amount of decisions that you make, you know in a finite life, and to base that life on a narrative, when not only the narrative isn’t what it claims to be, when leaders know the narrative isn’t what it claims to be, and intentionally - for as long as they could - withheld the information that would allow people to make an informed decision about how they spend their finite time and resources –that’s profoundly immoral." John Dehlin.


There's a lot of irony here considering John built Mormon Stories off a false narrative.

Now, it's certainly not the same, as the church is of course asking people to give up their "time, talents, and all that they possess" but you have to admit that John of all people calling foul on the church for hooking people in with a false narrative and then squeezing them for time and cash is pretty rich.

John Dehlin and his Open Stories fiefdom is like the Micro Machines version of the Mormon Church.
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kevensting wrote:There's a lot of irony here considering John built Mormon Stories off a false narrative.

What's the false narrative John used to build Mormon Stories?
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