Some Schmo wrote: ↑Sat Nov 27, 2021 3:18 pm
Jersey Girl wrote: ↑Sat Nov 27, 2021 3:55 am
Okay so I never answered the question. Guess what this building will be.
A monument to human greed? I dunno. I give up.
We lived in a huge house for about 10 years. It was gorgeous, comfortable, and the worst thing that ever happened to my family. When you have a huge house with only a few people, it naturally drives you apart as you all tend to hang out in your "area."
So we decided to downgrade, and we haven't been this happy in years. The older I get, the more minimalist I become.
Greed will never make anyone happy, because when you get what you want, you'll just want more. Greed makes satisfaction impossible.
Have you by any chance read Thoreau's Walden? If not you should try it. It may feel like a dry read, but I swear, it speaks to me.
So, if Thoreau were to reply to your above, he'd tell you that when people go to work they do so with the intention of upgrading their life styles by acquiring material goods, you know, starting with a home...let's say it's an apartment in our society. As they work harder and harder, climb the latter of so-called success, the amount of inventory of material goods increases so...they acquire a larger home...and then, they have to acquire more material goods to outfit it...think furniture. He essentially says that people work all of their lives to keep up with the accumulation...most of those people never truly own anything.
Particularly...not the big things.
Not the car.
Not the house.
Because those typically belong to the bank.
I have never seen in my lifetime the construction of SO many storage unit facilities. What's that about? I'm sure part of that has to do with being in a military town. But surely, the military couldn't account for all of them, could it?
I agree with what you say about family members going off into their own space. That can polarize relationships for sure. People turning to digital stuff, social media, instead of building relationships over time.
I've never lived in a huge house in my life. I never had my own room as a child. I never had my own space anywhere except on the beach. I think it benefited me, because I had to learn to accommodate and be accepting of family members with differing abilities and also at least one alcoholic. I loved them and they loved me. I learned to appreciate the people that they were, form loving bonds with them...all because we were all on top of each other in a little beach bungalow for a long period of my childhood.
I agree with minimalism!!!!!!!!!
During this pandemic, I have been de-cluttering like crazy. I have most areas of our home the way I want them to be but some spaces that are taking a long time because de-cluttering is
exhausting. The more I do it, the better I've gotten at it, and have reduced the inventory we previously had significantly! I can see that de-cluttering is never done. It's a matter of setting a goal, developing skill, and a continuing process of making oneself aware, evaluating, and basically paying attention. It's a way of living.
"Our life is frittered away by detail. Simplify, simplify, simplify! I say, let your affairs be as two or three, and not a hundred or a thousand; instead of a million count half a dozen, and keep your accounts on your thumb-nail." Henry David Thoreau
Lord, I love his philosophies!