doubtingthomas’s topics MEGATHREAD

[doubtingthomas]

I follow skeptic mag. Skeptic mag blames the HR’s Sex Police for the decline of sexual activity.
https://pocketmags.com/us/skeptic-magaz ... -right-yet

Why men are struggling by Skeptic
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcp30RboG8A

This one says that women on dating apps are too picky.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rfZEoy0Q3zE

According to business insider, "it's harder for women to find a mate as they get older."
https://www.businessinsider.com/datacly ... 0s-2014-10

Multiple threads combined. DT please refrain from opening multiple threads on the same topic when you already have an active thread for that topic. - Xen

[Marcus]

You are utterly predictable. Stop talking about women as things.

Is business insider an incel blog?

"Still, it's harder for women to find a mate as they get older."
https://www.businessinsider.com/datacly ... 0s-2014-10

Women Peak at 18, Men Peak at 50
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/15/styl ... n-age.html

I am really now done with you. You are wasting my time and you are clearly just a troll.

Your topics and the way you present them are well recognized as misogynistic incel, MGTOW, PUA topics. Stop talking about women as things. Stop posting your bigotry here.

[Chap]

i've stated several times that i think DoubtingThomas gleans his topics from various misogynist incel sources. This "loneliness causes misogyny" trope is just another one of his disinformation topics from such a source. He is not original in the least, as many others have pointed out about those who try to run with this topic. Here's just one:

A RECENT TREND on TikTok is the rise of the “lonely, single man” archetype, who skillfully clothes his misogyny and hate for women in what he perceives as an externally imposed and perpetuated loneliness.


[....]

...He is looking for a maid and a prostitute, someone who cleans and cooks and devotes her body to his pleasure... His natural enemies are “alpha women,” women who are loud, outspoken and confident.

[...]

https://ferrarsundfields.de/2022/09/04/ ... ingle-men/

Yup. And as the father of a daughter, I am happy to say that the model of woman such people require has been discontinued.

So they are going to have to live with that, and be nice about it, aren't they?

[Doctor Steuss]

I am only loyal to myself.

The loneliness is society's fault.

[ajax18]

Anyways, I know we (this board) don't care about single men. However, to end misogyny it's necessary to end loneliness first.

I like it. It sounds very Democrat. To fix crime, we have to raise taxes and write people checks so they don't have to steal first. To fix illegal immigration we have to open the border and legalize all immigrants and would be immigrants first.

[doubtingthomas]

I could be wrong about everything and I am not afraid of saying that because I am open minded.

However, there's a lot of new research concluding that GDM affects the baby in some way later in life. There's evidence suggesting that GDM makes the babies more susceptible to obesity and diabetes later in life.

Scientists are struggling to explain the rise of obesity. Why? Because people are eating healthier and exercising more compared to the 90s. Stress and overtime work could be contributing factors. People tend to gain weight as they get older and obesity is a risk factor of GDM.

Perhaps people should start taking the risk factors more seriously. Not caring about the risk factors of GDM is a form of child abuse.

"Diabetes in U.S. children expected to increase at 'alarming' rates" Updated: Feb 6, 2023
"Rates also are on the upswing in children because of an increase in gestational diabetes"
https://www.statesman.com/story/news/he ... 886300007/

"could alter the structure and function of the placenta increasing the risk of poor health outcomes" February 28, 2023
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2 ... 075744.htm

[doubtingthomas]

[Res Ipsa]

That’s an extraordinary amount of effort expended in trying to make yourself feel good about the anger and resentment you feel towards women who rejected your romantic overtures. Didn’t you pay attention to the part about how this won’t work? It just feeds your obsession. You tell us you’ll stop — then you show us that you can’t stop. Not without help.

Have you made that appointment yet?

[Marcus]

Oh look, yet another topic where you try to argue women's choices about who they have sex with and when should be socially controlled. (I.e. You should be able to have sex with any and all (very) young women you want, and society should make this happen for you. Because reasons.)

Again, however, it is just another common topic among misogynistic incel 'manosphere' groups.

Abstract

...Building on recent research that shows sexist ideology informs support for restricting women’s reproductive autonomy,

we examined the relation of sexism and the belief that men should be able to restrict the behavior of women..

The present studies show that hostile sexism is associated with perceptions that men have the right to constrain women’s reproductive choices.

Our findings highlight the adverse pressures on women’s reproductive autonomy, including sexist ideology...

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10 ... lCode=pwqa

You need to read somewhere else. And make that appointment.

[Res Ipsa]

You have a fundamental misconception about therapy that will interfere with the benefits of therapy. The cause of your obsession with who young women choose to form relationships with is the same thing that is keeping you from being happy. You’ve got a brain that is acting in ways that sabotage your happiness. Saying that you are not the problem misses the point. You have a problem. You’re not happy. How do you fix that problem? You teach your brain to stop sabotaging you so that you can be happy. And a good therapist will help you do that.

I'll to therapy to teach my brain to stop sabotaging me. I will also stop posting about these topics because I am tired of wasting my time. People don't listen. Most people aren't capable of reasoning when they have strong emotions about a topic.


I hope you are kind enough to acknowledge that I have made some valid points, I know that you know. I hope you admit it. You know I am different, I try very hard not to let my feelings dictate my beliefs about the world.

Some people here think that I am "actually a pretty bad person." Honorentheos thinks I am a threat. Does hono need therapy? Does Marcus need therapy for her obsession that everything is sexist? Marcus shows signs of anxiety, she gets very triggered and sees me as an enemy.



It'll be nice to teach my brain that. I would much rather remain single for the rest of my life, especially if I could teach my brain to be happy and single, but that's not what the theory of human evolution predicts. We evolved to have intimate partners, so the lack of an intimate partner can't be a good thing.

"The experts say a lack of sex can affect a person’s overall well-being."
https://www.healthline.com/health-news/ ... frequently

I do not have good friends, so I can't replace a good friend with an intimate partner.

Rejection is alright, but what happens when people experience a lot of rejection for many years?



True, I am a human being. Marcus quoted, "For starters, men must remember women are human beings with their own desires and goals." Why can't men be human beings too? Being too picky is a problem in society, that's the reason why there's a record number of single women in their 30s and 40s, and that's not a good thing according to the theory of human evolution.

So, I might have a problem, but it doesn't mean there aren't any serious problems in society. The fact that Mexicans and Europeans are more approachable is a strong indication that there's a serious problem in the US.

No, DT. You aren’t different. That’s called “denial.” Your entire obsession with the sex lived off young women is 100% emotion based. It’s what causes you to have such an extreme degree of confirmation bias in your “research.” You’re not engaged in rational, dispassionate research of societal problems. It’s all intended to justify your ugly emotions toward women that rejected you in the past. All of it.

Your need to reassure yourself that you are a good person even though you nurse and feed those emotions is so extreme that you engage in this kind of obvious and clumsy manipulation: anyone who doesn’t agree with your misogynist views of women — especially young women — is guilty of child abuse? You’re so caught up in desperate attempts to justify ugly and destructive emotions that you have no idea how transparent these attempts are to others.

You aren’t different. You’re in denial. And your’re going to be eaten alive by anger and resentment until you get the help you need.