Lol.doubtingthomas wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:48 pmJust because I am not posting the entire study here? LOL Ever heard of copyright laws? Get a life Doc!Doctor CamNC4Me wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:42 pmI just want everyone to know DT lied about having read the study. He’s a damn liar.
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What, precisely, are you proposing that we should make children afraid of?doubtingthomas wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:30 pmSchools can also do some fearmongering. Schools do a good job in doing fearmongering about STDs and pregnancy, Why can't schools do some fearmongering about violence and social exclusion?Res Ipsa wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 5:58 amShould children be taught to accept children who are different from them. Absolutely. Should children who have trouble with social skills be given instruction in how to improve those skills? Absolutely. Should schools both and expect and require a basic level of civil treatment of others? Certainly.
People usually blame the devil or mental illness for senseless acts of violence. No one admits that social exclusion could be a contributing factor.
It's sad that this comment will have to be hidden here in the trash can. You guys don't care about any solutions or the well-being of others.
This thread is now in the trash can. Apparently, the mods have no interest in taking this subject seriously.Doctor CamNC4Me wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:15 pmYou posted a link to a study. There was no access to the study without paying $18. You said you read the study. How many pages are there in the study you linked?
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This is the reason why you’re a social pariah, and virtually no woman would give you the time of the day and you lack friends. You’re a dishonest wimp who doesn’t ever take responsibility for yourself. You’re weak, undisciplined, and incapable of good social behavior.doubtingthomas wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:48 pmJust because I am not posting the entire study here? LOL Ever heard of copyright laws? Get a life Doc!Doctor CamNC4Me wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:42 pmI just want everyone to know DT lied about having read the study. He’s a damn liar.
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It's there. Nope, you look for it.
For once in your pathetic life, do the right thing. Admit here and now that you didn’t read the study.
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See? If I wanted I could upload every page in a minute. DT is a liar, and a worm.
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It's just another demonstrable instance of a pathological inability to read for comprehension, or accurately synthesize information. I don't know why I continue to waste favors for research university access. I have my own pathologies, I guess.Morley wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 12:31 pmNo, it doesn't. If it did, you'd be able to post the paragraph where that's said.doubtingthomas wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 3:29 amThe study says that aggression is just as meaningful as physical harm.
DT's bizarrely simplistic mangled summarization of the study comes from one of three experiments ("Experiment 1") in which they state:
(page 1060 of the journal)We measured aggression by giving participants the opportunity to damage another person's chances of getting a desirable job. This constitutes a measure of aggression because the evaluation has the potential to thwart the person's personal and career goals, a retaliation just as meaningful as physical harm.
For those who may be curious, here's the findings table from the experiment:

One thing I notice is that the fake personality results they gave don't exactly have neutral language. They essentially insulted people, and then found it meaningful that the people who had already been insulted acted more negatively when insulted again than the groups that hadn't already been insulted previously.
One kind of bizarre thing is that "misfortune" group. They were basically told they were accident prone. For some reason this appears to have made them less prone to retaliatory behavior in the experiment. I wonder if there's something about the physical aspect that increased emotional empathy?
Naturally, the concluding remarks are tepid in drawing any type of definitive causality, noting their research only provides some support for the opposite direction of causality from the existing (and not disproven) plausible theories that lonely people don't become insufferable douche-canoes. They become lonely people because they are insufferable douche-canoes.
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Should probably add the language from the fake personality test findings, as it's pretty stark.
You're the type who will end up alone later in life. You may have friends and relationships now, but by your mid 20s most of these will have drifted away. You may even marry or have several marriages, but these are likely to be short-lived and not continue into your 30s. Relationships don't last, and when you're past the age where people are constantly forming new relationships, the odds are you'll end up being alone more and more.
In contrast, people in the future belonging condition were told,
You're the type who has rewarding relationships throughout life. You're likely to have a long and stable marriage and have friendships that will last into your later years. The odds are that you'll always have friends and people who care about you.
Last, we included a misfortune control condition in which people were told,
You're likely to be accident prone later in life—you might break an arm or a leg a few times, or maybe be injured in car accidents. Even if you haven't been accident prone before, these things will show up later in life, and the odds are you will have a lot of accidents.
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Doctor CamNC4Me wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:52 pmFor once in your pathetic life, do the right thing. Admit here and now that you didn’t read the study.

That's not true Doc.Doctor CamNC4Me wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:52 pm
This is the reason why you’re a social pariah, and virtually no woman would give you the time of the day and you lack friends.
"I have the type of (REAL) job where I can choose how to spend my time," says Marcus. 

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So, it's not accurate to say that there's a correlation?Doctor Steuss wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:58 pm.
DT's bizarrely simplistic mangled summarization of the study comes from one of three experiments ("Experiment 1") in which they state:
Doctor Steuss wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:58 pmWe measured aggression by giving participants the opportunity to damage another person's chances of getting a desirable job. This constitutes a measure of aggression because the evaluation has the potential to thwart the person's personal and career goals, a retaliation just as meaningful as physical harm.
Thank you for showing that Marcus is lying.
Marcus wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:44 pmI read it, no it doesn’t. Quote the paragraph that you think supports your point.doubtingthomas wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:17 pm
It says that retaliation (cause by aggression) is as meaningful as physical harm.
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Fearmongering. Tell the parents that bullying and social exclusion increases the chances that a kid brings a weapon to school.
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QEDdoubtingthomas wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 10:03 pmDoctor CamNC4Me wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:52 pmFor once in your pathetic life, do the right thing. Admit here and now that you didn’t read the study.Doc, I read the study. Now, I did skip some paragraphs, but I read the important parts, especially the conclusion. I am not claiming that the study concludes that social exclusion causes violence.
That's not true Doc.Doctor CamNC4Me wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:52 pm
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Social exclusion is never externally imposed?Marcus wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:49 pm
I posted while you did, and unfortunately, I agree. He didn’t read the study. And he still is behaving just like this, an excerpt from what was posted earlier:https://ferrarsundfields.de/2022/09/04/ ... e-men/amp/…the rise of the “lonely, single man” archetype, who skillfully clothes his misogyny and hate for women in what he perceives as an externally imposed and perpetuated loneliness…
And Doctor Steuss provided the quote that you wanted, so you lied about reading the study.
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I’m equal parts impressed and amused that would illicit a flurry of selfsame fruits.Doctor Steuss wrote: ↑Mon Apr 24, 2023 9:58 pmIt's just another demonstrable instance of a pathological...