doubtingthomas wrote: ↑Tue Apr 25, 2023 4:46 am
Res Ipsa wrote: ↑Tue Apr 25, 2023 4:18 am
You have zero evidence that creating an environment of fear among students will reduce social exclusion and you justify flat out lying to students by pointing to alleged lying in the past.
A lot of people are lying to students. People and politicians blame evil and the devil for gun violence. The Left rightfully blames terrible gun laws, but Congress won't do anything to fix them.
Seriously. Take a class in basic reasoning. Justifying lying to students by the fact that students have been lied to before is a non sequitur. It's also a symptom of a broken moral compass. The political debate over gun laws is a red herring -- it is irrelevant to your proposal to lie to parents about the risks of social exclusion.
doubtingthomas wrote:Thinking about this, there is really no need to lie or exaggerate. Why can't schools have an honest discussion with the parents about the correlation between social exclusion and aggression?
You are approaching the issue exactly backwards, which is a red flag that you are engaged in motivated reasoning rather than genuine problem solving. You are the one who is proposing some kind of change. You carry the burden of proof to show that the change would be not only effective, but the best method of achieving the desired goal. To this point, you haven't even defined the goal.
Second, what exactly would you tell parents? How do you expect the parents to react and what is your basis for that expectation? What do you expect that parents will communicate to their children, if anything at all, and what is the basis for your expectation? Finally, how do you think the children will react to whatever you expect the parents to tell them and what is the basis for that expectation?
Third, why do you think that schools telling something to parents that you hope will result in them telling something to their children that you hope will lead those children to be more inclusive is a better approach than the schools acting directly with students to encourage more inclusion?
doubtingthomas wrote:Schools use scare tactics.
https://scholars.org/contribution/why-u ... y-backfire
I've seen some evidence from other sources that the fear of getting an STI is contributing to the decline in sexual activity, but that's besides the point. Even if fear-inducing strategies aren't preventing young people from having sex, that wouldn't mean that fear-inducing strategies never work for anything.
So? Why are you still arguing a point that you've already acknowledged you don't need? See above -- you're still arguing a non-sequitur. You're also getting the burden of proof backwards again. You are the person that proposed the use of a fear based strategy to get students to be more accepting of the students that you've worked to make them afraid of. It's your burden to show why that would be an effective strategy.
In addition, what you've also shown is that you don't have any kind of grasp of what you need to do to present a sound argument for your proposal. You cited an article in support of a point that is part of a terrible argument (past lying justifies lying in this specific case) and which undercuts the strategy you were arguing for. It doesn't matter why you cited it -- the piece itself undercuts the argument that you were making: that lying to parents and students to make them afraid is a good idea. Using chess as an analogy, you just sacrificed your queen to capture a pawn -- and you think you've done something clever.
If you honestly want to have a serious discussion about solving a problem, define the problem, define the change you want to bring about, and then, if folks agree that there is a problem that needs to be addressed, they can discuss potential solutions and try to figure out which one would be most effective. If you want to behave like a petulant teenager who wants to get even for past wrongs, I'm not interested.