Shulem wrote: ↑Tue Jan 21, 2025 5:49 pm
I don't know that I said that. I don't know if I even thought that.
But I will say, if you can't stand the heat in the kitchen, then go elsewhere. You are welcome to choose what threads you care to participate in and if you don't like the tone, then do something else with your time. Or, as it is, feel free to express your objections and disappointment.
Look, I don't expect you to "cooperate" with me but it would go a long way if you'd answer a question when someone needs clarification in order to understand what the hell you are thinking! Or is it you just want to play games?
Yeah, I don’t know why acting like an asshole has become a generally accepted way to induce others to engage. If I were Don, I’d ignore you. And, for the most part, he has. Here’s an idea: He published a book. Why don’t you publish an article refuting Don, and you can go from there? Let him respond to that. That’s how scholarship works. Scholars don’t scour the internet looking for the rando on a message board or comments section who disagrees with them.
As for the “can’t stand the heat” crap, why does there have to be heat? Why do you need it? You want Don to engage with you, but your posture is “schoolyard scrapping.” Why should he want to engage with you if that is how you act toward him?
This is more generally aimed at everyone who responded to me about Don: People make choices. Those choices govern other choices they make. You want to use those further constraints as proof that Don is not free, or that the church is bad because it has rules, etc. We’re all in the same boat. Bucking whatever community in which you participate, even this one, will have consequences.
Don isn’t afraid to answer anyone, but he has priorities that spring from his choices. He chose a long time ago to return to the LDS Church, and he chose to stay away from here for the most part. The two are surely related, but not on account of fear. I would say that he tires of the same questions that have no answers you all would find satisfactory. The questions seem to go like this: “Why did you do something I totally disagree with? How could you? Given the fact that the Church is bad, why on earth would you go back after leaving?”
Answering those questions over and over again gets old.