IHAQ wrote:I’ll labour the point even further. If the correction of wrongdoing actually makes things better than if no wrongdoing had happened in the first place, are marriages somehow stronger after one or both parties have had affairs? That’s the logic the Afore is quoting and endorsing in order to minimise 100 years of proactive racial discrimination by the religious sect of his birth.
Is a child’s good behaviour elevated simply because of all the bad behaviour that preceded it?
The real problem is that Peterson and the person he’s quoting, are seeking undue praise for correcting something that was problematic. Not only that, they are making baseless suggestions about the current Church situation between black and white members being better because of the problem, than if the church hadn’t caused the problem in the first place. And they then cite that some black people have finally been given junior positions in the hierarchy as evidence of that.
This is the most deranged apologetic I've seen in a while. I agree that the speculation that relationships are better because of the problem is baseless. This is "unfalsifiable" Peterson talking, since we have no way to say what the relationship would have been. Other Christian churches are far, far ahead of Mormons in Africa so it would seem not to have helped but perhaps the Church wouldn't have put more effort in earlier even without the ban so again Dan takes a conveniently unfalsifiable position.
The question about affairs is interesting. I would say almost never would that be the case. Almost never does abuse make relationships better though there is Stockholm syndrome and anything is possible. There are certainly times when people get off on the wrong foot, and then somehow that initial tension might play into a stronger relationship in the end. I grant the bare possibility that previous tensions and forgiveness and all that could result in a better eventual outcome than had the tension never happened.
But here's the thing, two strangers misapprehending each other, going off half cocked, and then become better friends -- per what apparently is called relational dialectics theory -- could only apply here in a completely twisted way. If we want to say the church was in the wrong with the policy, then maybe there is something to it. But what the Mopologists seem to be suggesting is that God ordered a "fake" ban as a means of triggering the psychological vulnerabilities at work which result in a stronger bond in the end. That's complete sociopathology. Sociopaths are in fact known to do this, to initiate conflict and then magnify their own role as the peacemaker as a means of strengthening the victims trust toward them. That Dan is suggesting God has orchestrated this complex relational dialectic calculated to have blacks eating out of the hands of white apostles is completely sick. It comes as no surprise, however, that the apologists believe such a thing.
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