I think polygamy entails more than sex just like marriage entails more than sex.
No it entails less. It is reverting to a primitive animalistic time when males were sperm donors and females did not require, need, or want males.
By confidence in their husband I meant a deep understanding of the constancy of his love.
This makes no sense to me... OK... the counselor to the woman whose husband has just been caught having a history of affairs, "It is ok, you can tell he loves you. You must have a deep understanding of the constancy of his love." " Just because he doesn't want to be with you, sleeps with other women, doesn't support you, care for you, spend time with you, just because he wants to get intimate with other women doesn't mean he doesn't love you any less. "
The 'acceptance of duty' line I included despite it being a difficult fit. It applies to men who do not look forward to polygamy in the sense of wanting it but are willing to do as God asks if he asks.
Wow... personally I can't think of anything more degrading than a man wanting me because it was his duty. I mean seriously that is about as sick and perverted and demeaning as it comes. Nice God you got there Nehor!
The man with the shrewish wife may want another wife thinking it will be different. However in my experience likes attract in this area. I didn't say it was a logical desire.
In other words, Guys that don't have a great sex life hope for polygamy? Yep... I agree with you on this.... seems consistent.
More than one woman has confessed bisexual urges as a reason for them being willing to accept polygamy. On whether there will be lesbianism in the afterlife.....I have no idea. I doubt it though. Again, it is illogical.
Actually, I have that there were lesbian women in the early days of the church who agreed to polygamy for this very reason.
By a more developed view of the afterlife I did not mean to imply that their view is correct. Most anyone who is dogmatic on that point is probably going to find out that they were wrong.
People who want polygamy want a primitive, animalistic relationship.
For men it means no true connection, emotional intimacy, care, love... but sex with many females.
For women it means no true connection, emotional intimacy, care, love with a man.
Yes, polygamy works for some people, as does all sorts of alternative relationships and mating patterns.
I just for the life of me do not see it as Godly.
It is cruel, animalistic, perverted, base, not to mention completely disgusting. I mean seriously... gross!
~dancer~