DoubtingThomas wrote:Lemmie wrote:Therapy isn't magic.
I do want to see a therapist to see if he can help me feel better.
Okay so this is what I've got so far. You want to see a therapist but it has to be the right therapist for which you'll probably need to drive hundreds of miles but you don't actually know jack about therapy.
Got it.
You want the right therapist.
You want the right girl.
You want everyone to tick off YOUR boxes for rightness but you don't show us that you are lifting so much as a finger (I lied, you're on a device using at least one finger) to make YOURSELF tickable to others.
You have been discussing this with us for well over a year, you haven't made one single move in ANY direction but you like creating thread after thread because this is like therapy.
No it isn't.
Not when you stay stuck on the same topic for over a year, keep saying the same things over and over and over again, making the same excuses over and over and over again, demanding references and statistics over and over again when you can go find whatever it is you want yourself.
Go find a therapist, put yourself in social situations and sink or swim like the rest of the world does.
Let your feelings be hurt, let yourself be rejected, let yourself practice creating relationships with males and females--successful and not successful relationships.
Like the rest of us here have done in our lives.
People here have given you the benefit of their advice and wisdom accumulated over decades of their lives.
Try acting on it. Only don't sit there stuck doing the same thing over and over and over again and expect others to continue to entertain your apathy.