Thanks, but no thanks for that.


Regards,
MG
Not the least bit. It's completely obvious why you can remain a member of the Church and actually believe and spend so much time on this board, read anything you want in the world and it doesn't affect your faith.MG wrote:Honestly, don’t you folks often wonder how in the world I can remain a member of the church and actually believe?
Not everyone here is an atheist obviously.MG 2.0 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 04, 2024 11:25 pmIt simply amazes me to observe the hubris that comes from your keyboard. What I said is in part true. You are an amazingly smart person, right? So is Morley. There are some very bright people here. But that also really goes without saying.
Everybody seems to know that.
The wink and lol are in reference to the hubris and self confident judgement which is on display as you pontificate on the strengths and weaknesses of others. The nit picky stuff.
A MAJOR focus.
Now…why is that? Does it take special training? Or is a lack of human decency to simply cut each other some slack and smile…in a kind sort of way…in regards to the quirks and yes, even inadequacies of others.
Maybe I’m not cut out for the ‘debate stage’ where debate preparation includes poking and prodding for the slightest little opening to rush in and grind the other person and/or their arguments down rather than looking for possible strong points and strengths.
I can do better. Can you do better? As it is, this gets awfully tedious presenting an opinion or an argument to simply have it turned on a 180 through argumentative methodologies designed to simply go in for the kill through finding some kind of rhetorical weakness in argument.
I guess it’s not a living room where we sit around and chat.![]()
It’s always ‘high stakes’. It’s too bad it has to be that way. I suppose it’s the whole religion/politics thing where polarization seems to be the only game in town for many. Even if on an unconscious level.
It wasn’t a troll post as much as an ‘it is what it is kind of hopeless’ post. I guess if we are truly looking at each other as the enemy then there is no hope for reconciliation.
If I can’t even connect with malkie on a simple level of ‘hey, you’re a good guy’, then, well, I find that sad.
I do like the general framing of this board of being able to give and take and share ideas. But there seems to be a level of animosity that I’m finding disheartening with very little room, it seems, for basic human kindness.
And yes, I can always do better also. I was a little snarky in some of my recent comments.
Also, truth be told, I think we both (believers and non believers) make personal observations to ourselves that we are talking more or less to a brick wall.
I know I do!
This board might actually be better off being an echo chamber of sorts. A silo. It may well be that religious discussion, where there will naturally be disagreements, is better had in the living room rather than online. I’ve felt like more than ‘one voice’ needed to be heard here.
I still do. But I sometimes find my self wondering if that’s actually possible. So many believing members have come and gone and given up trying to find common ground. Tough to do in these circumstances where our core beliefs are 180 degrees different from each other.
In a certain sense we may actually look at each other as being stupid. “How can a person believe that?” Honestly, don’t you folks often wonder how in the world I can remain a member of the church and actually believe?
In other words, I’m some kind of stupid right out of the gate? How can you even believe this stuff?
Ceeboo was recently treated unfairly (I’m not going to argue yay or nay on that) and he unfortunately responded unkindly. But I think he was being looked at and treated as an inferior simply because he believes in the Judaeo Christian God.
Lots of pretty smart people do. I’m reading a book right now called, “The Language of God” by Francis Collins. Smart guy to say the least. But at the end of the day some would look at him as being somehow deficient because he too hasn't ‘seen the light’.
It’s tough when the ‘crowd’ is chanting one thing and you’re standing up for Christ. I admire Ceeboo for that. Standing up for God. In the midst of unbelievers asking for proofs for something that is much bigger than our five senses and worldly logic.
Anyway, that’s enough. Thanks for listening if you got this far!
Must be the cold medication. Cough cough.![]()
Regards,
MG
That's you.
...preparation includes poking and prodding for the slightest little opening to rush in and grind the other person and/or their arguments down rather than looking for possible strong points and strengths...
Lol. Definitely you....this gets awfully tedious presenting an opinion or an argument to simply have it turned on a 180 through argumentative methodologies...
you do it unconsciously? Every thread you enter ends up there.I suppose it’s the whole religion/politics thing where polarization seems to be the only game in town for many. Even if on an unconscious level.
did you try?...If I can’t even connect with malkie on a simple level of ‘hey, you’re a good guy’, then, well, I find that sad.
You bring the animosity in your judgmental approach, try bringing the kindness you want to see.I do like the general framing of this board of being able to give and take and share ideas. But there seems to be a level of animosity that I’m finding disheartening with very little room, it seems, for basic human kindness.
Yes, we get that from you. It's quite clear you think people who have left the LDS church become stupid.. ..In a certain sense we may actually look at each other as being stupid.
Incorrect. Others are believers here, but they don't repeatedly call those who disagree with them "morons", like Ceeboo did.Ceeboo was recently treated unfairly (I’m not going to argue yay or nay on that) and he unfortunately responded unkindly. But I think he was being looked at and treated as an inferior simply because he believes in the Judaeo Christian God.
May i suggest standing up for your beliefs with intellectual honesty? And without disingenuousness, without giving equivocating non-answers, and without calling people morons?It’s tough when the ‘crowd’ is chanting one thing and you’re standing up for Christ. I admire Ceeboo for that. Standing up for God.
This is an excellent point. It’s one persons version of an event that he got 3 and 8 other people to agree happened. And those people were all close family and friends. That’s how affinity fraud works.
Putting aside your opinion concerning a specific individual being amazingly smart in order to speak more broadly. Having "very bright" members can be quite valuable to the collective community on a message board - it can be a benefit to all who participate, and it can promote an environment to learn as well as be the catalyst for provoking thought. Over many years participating here, I have benefited greatly in the learning department, and I have been provoked to think.
The nit picky stuff.
I wasn't going to reply to this, but I saw that Marcus pasted the following to you: "Others are believers here, but they don't repeatedly call those who disagree with them "morons", like Ceeboo did."Ceeboo was recently treated unfairly
Welcome to the 21st century, ceeboo. You're now using the term moron as a mindless slur.
Usage of Moron:
The terms idiot, imbecile, moron, and their derivatives were formerly used as technical descriptors in medical, educational, and regulatory contexts.
These uses were broadly rejected by the close of the 20th century and are now considered offensive.
Merriam-Webster's Dictionary
Great point about affinity fraud, I hadn't even considered that. Maybe that's why Utah is the capital of that!I Have Questions wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2024 9:13 amThis is an excellent point. It’s one persons version of an event that he got 3 and 8 other subsequently people agreed happened. And those people were all close family and friends. That’s how affinity fraud works.
In addition, the number of times that you use the laughing emoji to laugh at someone - mock someone - insinuate your heightened intellect over those beneath you - and/or intend to demean someone, is off the charts.
ceeboo wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2024 2:28 pmIn addition, the number of times that you use the laughing emoji to laugh at someone - mock someone - insinuate your heightened intellect over those beneath you - and/or intend to demean someone, is off the charts.
In case you didn't know, the laughing emoji can be used, if chosen, to share a laugh with someone, rather than to use it as a weapon for your personal and individual benefit.
I Have Questions wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2024 9:13 amThis is an excellent point. It’s one persons version of an event that he got 3 and 8 other people to agree happened. And those people were all close family and friends. That’s how affinity fraud works.