MG 2.0 wrote: ↑Fri Nov 22, 2024 11:08 pm
Morley wrote: ↑Fri Nov 22, 2024 10:21 pm
No the key phrase that you defended, "Do not rely on the words of an Apostate. Even if he comes across as a nice guy."
Yes, MG, you hate vulgarity so much that you frequently tell other posters in this space to "grow a pair."
Yep, I did say that. If you see me as a vulgar person because I said that (look at what I said in context) then I can’t stop you from thinking that. I will say, however, I try to keep my heart and mind clean and pure. I don’t always succeed. But I would not consider myself to be a vulgar man as you gave conceded to be.
I would never say what you said to me…even if deftly (?) hidden in a short story. You’ve lost my confidence.
Regards,
MG
MG, you got hurt feelings when I teased you. That’s understandable. Sometimes the feeling of betrayal that can come from hurt feelings is horrible. Hurt feelings can be worse than physical pain.
You didn’t get the joke right away, and, when you found out, you understandably thought that I was making fun of you behind your back. I was really making fun to your face.
I had thought that I was being more transparent than that, which is why I used the obvious French term for mental gymnastics. Since my painting had a bare bum and my French is not good, I used a translation program for ‘Kiss my Ass.” I wanted some phrase that was not so obvious. I didn’t understand all the implications of my choice until malkie gave his wonderful interpretation. But it wouldn’t have mattered if I’d known or not, the joy in his story alone would have made me pick it, anyway.
Anyhow, this is a long-winded way of partly apologizing, but also kind of not—because I’m only halfway sorry.
I hear you when you say you don’t trust me anymore. I wish I knew what difference that would make in how you treat me or anyone else. I get frustrated because you’re not an honest person in discussion. You’re disingenuous, you know it, and you don’t care. This becomes a form of disrespect to everyone who engages you.
I may have reacted badly. Or maybe not. I’ll have to revisit in a few days.